What to Say in a Lacrosse College Coach Email (and What to Avoid)
- Recruiting Shortcut
- May 9
- 1 min read
Updated: Sep 25
College Coach Emails That Actually Get Read

The majority of recruiting emails to college lacrosse coaches never get a reply. Why? They’re too long, too generic, or don’t give a coach the information they need to evaluate you quickly. The good news is you don’t need a perfect essay. You need a short, specific note that shows interest and makes it easy to respond.
Clarity earns replies. Personality keeps conversations going.
Want to learn the basics?
Use a Clear Subject Line
Coaches will search their inbox later by grad year and position. Include both in your subject line. Example: “2028 Attack – Film + Spring Schedule”. Skip hype words like “urgent” or “amazing.”
Keep It to Seven Sentences or Less
Who you are, why this school, highlight link, schedule, one question, thanks, and contact info. Anything longer looks like copy-paste.
Make the Reply Easy
The fastest way to get ghosted is asking a vague question like “Any feedback?” Instead, ask something direct like: “What do you look for in a 2028 attack in your system?” Coaches can answer that quickly, even while on the road.
Follow Up With Something New
Every 7–10 days, send an update: a cleaner reel, new GPA, or an upcoming showcase invite.
The Shortcut to Smarter Emailing
Skip the guesswork. The Lacrosse Recruiting Shortcut gives you the structure and strategy to start strong and stay on track.
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